What a great holiday! This year, it comes at a time when our country’s financial climate is in great turmoil and when poignant change is just over the horizon. It comes just in time to remind us of all the important things in life, all for which we can be thankful.
God. Family. Friends. Love.
I thank God every day for the love of our family and friends around us. Over the years, we have created our own family traditions around certain holidays and Thanksgiving is one of the highlights. Even with our oldest in college, we still manage to all get together to celebrate and give thanks in our own, inimitable style.
We try to adhere to our basic traditions, but some things do change from year to year, usually for the better. Tomorrow morning, I’ll be going to church for the first time on a Thanksgiving. I’m trying to start the day off right by giving thanks to our Lord who gives us everything. After church, I’ll return to the Smudski tradition of preparing the Thanksgiving Feast for our family! And this part hasn’t changed in many years!!!
We start by breaking the bread for the stuffing and washing the turkey. We’ll stuff the turkey and get it roasting by 1PM. Then come the pumpkin pies, the sweet potato casserole, the cranberry sauce, the mashed potatoes and corn, and probably even a poppyseed roll! At 5 o’clock, when the turkey’s almost done, we’ll drain the drippings and make our own delicious gravy.
At 6:00 or so, we set the formal dining room table with all the “good dishes”, carve the turkey, pop the cork on a nice bottle of wine and sit down to our traditional Thanksgiving family dinner.
After all these years, I am still amazed at how our children still love the traditional routine! They look forward to this dinner every year. Not just the food, but being together to share it all with the family. And it wouldn’t be truly Thanksgiving in our house but for the after dinner tradition of putting up the Christmas tree.
This year, our daughters will probably have their boyfriends join us for the festivities. Of course, the lights go on tree first and my son is getting quite good at that. Then come the ornaments. The kids each have their own sets of ornaments and they get those up first. Then all the family ornaments get on the tree. At that point we decide whether we’re going to put tinsel on the tree this year or not. It’s always beautiful either way. And all the while, we’re drinking hot chocolate, the fire’s going and Bing and Nat are crooning out Christmas songs on the stereo!
When all’s said and done for the day, my wife and I sit in the dark, staring at the beautifully lit tree of Christmas. We thank God for how lucky we are to have such wonderful kids, great family and friends, a nice home and community to live in, and each other to spend the rest of our lives together.
That’s our Thanksgiving. As the kids get older and start families of their own, we know it’s going to change. But it can only get better, as they grow and build their own traditions and we all somehow meld our traditions together with Love.
Have a Happy Thanksgiving!